Divorce can be one of life’s most stressful experiences, often bringing financial strain, prolonged disputes, and emotional upheaval. Mediation provides a structured, solution-driven approach that helps couples navigate separation respectfully, efficiently, and cost-effectively. The Mediation Process: Main Objectives Our mediation process is designed to achieve clarity, fairness, and lasting agreements. Each stage has a clear … Read more
By Nicki Macartney | Divorce and Family Mediator in Randburg When parents separate or divorce, decisions about their children can be difficult and emotionally challenging. A parenting plan can help parents establish clear arrangements for their children’s care, contact, education and general wellbeing. In South Africa, parenting plans are regulated by the Children’s Act 38 … Read more
Child Maintenance in South Africa: What Should You Pay? One of the most common questions parents ask after separation or divorce is: How much child maintenance should I pay? There is no fixed amount that applies to every family. Child maintenance is calculated according to the reasonable needs of the child and the … Read more
Divorce and separation can be challenging for children who must navigate two households, new routines and often divided time with each parent. When parents struggle to communicate or are embroiled in conflict, concerns about stability and continuity for the child can intensify. Shared residency — also known as shared care or shared residence — offers … Read more
When parents separate or divorce, children may sometimes resist or refuse contact with one of their parents. This can be an upsetting and confusing experience for both the child and the parent concerned. It is tempting to assume that the other parent is deliberately influencing the child’s behaviour. However, a child’s refusal to have contact … Read more
Divorce Options in South Africa: Choosing the Right Path Divorce is one of life’s most difficult experiences. It can involve grief, uncertainty and significant emotional stress. Yet, while the process is painful, you do have some control over how it unfolds. One of the most important decisions you will make is choosing the divorce process … Read more
When parents separate or divorce, one of the most important questions is how their decisions will affect their children. Where will the children live? How will they maintain relationships with both parents? What arrangements will best support their emotional wellbeing, education, safety and development? In South Africa, the best interests of the child are of … Read more
Divorce is one of the most difficult transitions a family can experience. While parents may be dealing with grief, anger, uncertainty and practical changes, their children are also trying to understand what is happening and what it means for their future. Children may worry about where they will live, whether they will have to change … Read more
When parents separate or divorce, their relationship as a couple may come to an end, but their responsibilities towards their children continue. Finding a way to work together as parents can be challenging, particularly when emotions are running high or communication has broken down. Children need stability, reassurance and the freedom to maintain meaningful relationships … Read more
Divorce affects children differently depending on their age, emotional development and family circumstances. While adults may understand why a relationship has ended, children may struggle to understand what the separation means for their own lives. A young child may worry about who will look after them. A school-age child may blame themselves for the separation, … Read more
