Child Maintenance in South Africa: What Should You Pay? One of the most common questions parents ask after separation or divorce is: How much child maintenance should I pay? There is no fixed amount that applies to every family. Child maintenance is calculated according to the reasonable needs of the child and the … Read more
Divorce and separation can be challenging for children who must navigate two households, new routines and often divided time with each parent. When parents struggle to communicate or are embroiled in conflict, concerns about stability and continuity for the child can intensify. Shared residency — also known as shared care or shared residence — offers … Read more
When parents separate or divorce, children may sometimes resist or refuse contact with one of their parents. This can be an upsetting and confusing experience for both the child and the parent concerned. It is tempting to assume that the other parent is deliberately influencing the child’s behaviour. However, a child’s refusal to have contact … Read more
Divorce affects children differently depending on their age, emotional development and family circumstances. While adults may understand why a relationship has ended, children may struggle to understand what the separation means for their own lives. A young child may worry about who will look after them. A school-age child may blame themselves for the separation, … Read more
